Update:crunch time’ and my bone marrow is M.J.
Over the last two weeks I’ve received five transfusions total, three last week and two this week.
At my most recent visit the doctor explained to me we’re approaching “crunch time,” if my body is responding to the ATG my blood counts should move closer to normal over the next few weeks.
A basketball coach once told me ‘sports parallel life,’ and with the usage of a phrase like “crunch time” my doctor has done nothing to disprove it.
I’ll give the sports analogy a shot. Let’s say my bone marrow is Michael Jordan. And we, the Chicago Bulls, are in the final seconds of the fourth quarter of a tie game. To put it mildly, we would like to get the win here.
If it seems disgustingly self serving that I’ve chosen the greatest sportsman of a generation to represent my bone marrow, no worries it is exactly that…just trying to stay positive. However, before you write the selection off as entirely fair weathered’ and sickening, take note of the undeniable; Michael Jordan and my bone marrow have traveled remarkably similar paths. Both were born in New York. Both began to mature and come into their own in the late 8o’s, early 90′s; M.J. started winning MVP’s and championships and my bone marrow helped develop one of the finer child immune systems—between 1988 and 1992 there is record of only two illnesses, a short lived ear infection and a bout with the common cold. By all reports the cold was dispatched of in three days and two nights—-in most cases the common cold takes 7 to 10 days to run it’s course. Extraordinary.
But the most striking of all the many similarities comes next. After being wildly successful, Michael Jordan, just like my bone marrow, decided to hang it up in the prime of his career and walk away from the game he loved. They say Chicago shut down for weeks when M.J. announced his retirement—children wept, men skipped work in favor of long binges at South-side bars. To be truthful, I didn’t not take my marrow’s decision to call it quits all that well either.
Now that I’ve cemented Jordan as a more than decent representative of my bone marrow, back to the game.
It’s all tied up, final seconds of the fourth quarter. Think of me as one of the Bull’s role players—maybe Luc Longley—assigned to set the screen that’s going to free up M.J. for an open look. The balls been in-bounded and Luc’s sets a decent screen—a.k.a. I’ve taken all of my medication and made the necessary lifestyle adjustments to optimize treatment—now we need to have faith that Jordan’s going to nail the shot.






September 7th, 2009 at 8:15 pm
The Ball is still in your court!! And lots of games go into overtime!!! Thinking of you.
September 8th, 2009 at 2:42 pm
swish…nothin’but net
September 8th, 2009 at 5:01 pm
Matt,
Loved this blog. I’ve read my share of books on and by MJ over the years. He had some many qualities that seperated him on the basketball court. The cathcher’s mitt hands, the impeccable footwork, the aerial grace, but I truly believe the thing that will forever set him apart from the players of today and tomorrow was his mentality. He epitomized positive thinking. I remember some games where he was shooting like 2-17 heading into the 4th, the type of shooting that makes the mere mortal give the defeated look of take me out to the coach. But MJ would end up knocking down 7 or 8 straight (on the road mind you) including the game winner. He always thought the next shot was going in, and so did everyone in the building every time it left his fingertips. I’ve always tried keep that mindset on and off the court and I’m glad to see you have as well.
September 8th, 2009 at 9:09 pm
What a baller analogy
September 11th, 2009 at 11:02 am
Clever (and wise) analogy. Don’t forget to scan the bleachers; all YOUR fans are there on their feet roaring for you to get the ball and take the shot! We know you will do your best.
September 14th, 2009 at 5:34 pm
Just checking in to wish you all the best, Matt.
My bro has gone in again with a severe skin infection – bruises,sores, lumps. He can’t start definitive treatment ie. ATG until it’s gone; he’s on heavy duty IV antibiotics and antifungals, and they are worrying if he has some kind of rare blood infection.
He was hospitalised a few weeks ago with MRSA, now this.
I’m not a marrow match
We are all scared; your diary is helping. Thank you